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“His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage” is a great book that is essential for every married couple. Willard F. Jr. Harley is the author of this impressive book. This book is written in an easy style with common sense without being preachy. Men especially would benefit from reading this book if they want to reconnect with their wife or partner. Harley gives great advice and really knows what women need and want, as well as men. It is a wonderful book and will certainly help your relationship. His marriage longevity attests that he knows what he is telling couples to do in order to improve communication, affection and the overall experience of being a couple in love again. The book accurately reveals the critical emotional priorities of men and women. When each understands the other most important emotional needs and actively and sincerely attempts to meet those needs, there is multifold feedback or emotional reward that further amplifies the mutual satisfaction in the relationship. True happiness and peace are certainly reachable based on the committed use of these principles. Dr. Harley’s insights on the 10 emotional needs of men and women are truly eye-opening. His separation of these needs into typical female and male requirements throws a whole new light on the marital relationship. Dr. Harley’s “love bank” concept brings interpersonal relationships down to a very real and practical level making it easier to understand why we feel the way we do. His frequent use of counselling experiences and anecdotes help the reader to relate on a very personal level. His Needs, Her Needs is a road map to romantic love and a deeply caring relationship. It will strengthen any relationship and breathe new life into a marriage on the rocks. It’s a great book and an interesting read with great information.